Quote: Note: we are turning one of our upstairs rooms into an office. He is looking for a used computer because he says he wants to write stories, but also wants a wireless setup to access the internet. I'm not sure how to tell him about my reaction to that. When I think about the nights that I used to wake up in the middle of the night to find that he was not in bed and was downstairs on the computer...only to find out later that the worst of my fears were right on the mark....well...I don't have to explain to you guys how that rattles me.
Sounds simple to me. Since trust and honesty is what we're ALL going for here. TELL him about your fear related to the damn puter. Give him the "gift" of laying your vulnerability with this issue at his feet, it will show HIM that YOU trust HIM to respect YOUR fear.
