TWolf, I am going to give you ONE WORD here for you to digest
PRESENTATION
If your posts here are any sample of how you are executing your exposure efforts you need to regroup and focus.
Puppy here has already suggested that your posts are near incomprehensible streams of input.
We aren't trying to beat you up here, but its very difficult to make sense of your situation in full... you don't even use a signature.
Use lists, tables, point form notes etc here it helps.
I suspect your exposure script is needing improving too.
1. Do NOT DENOUNCE what your wife is saying. If your wife is telling everyone you beat her, you IGNORE that and stick to the facts. When you include
"I did not beat my wife"
IN your letters, all people read is "Beat" and "wife" and no one wants to read further.
Do NOT put focus on your wife's claims in your scirpt. Stick to the facts and IGNORE whatever she's saying.
1. Our marriage is in serious trouble 2. I would appreciate your help 3. Do NOT support OM's involvement with my wife while my marriage is vulnerable 4. We have a two-year-ol-son. 5. My wife is having an affair and exposing my infant son to this predator. 6. Please help me save my marriage by NOT involving yourself in any way with OM - he's a threat to my marriage and my family
That's it, a nice, simple list of points you want to get across...
Did this cop you spoke to offer to do anything about the OM being around your SON? Not a word?
Do you have a separation agreement in place with child custody rules in place?
Details tWolf, summaried factually in points without too much stream...
Presentation...is important when fighting for your marriage, both here on this forum, and with your freinds and family in your community.
