Right now, today, my only concern is our intimacy issue. I 'was' pushy about wanting sex weeks ago, and would get 'sex' from her but she'd lay there like she was angry at me, and just sort of let me get it over with. I told her one night that this wasn't how I wanted it, and that I'll just be here for her when she's ready. Any other suggestions?
My sex life is amazing now. Keep reading as much as you can.
You are the man and are in charge of the sex and romance department. If you postpone your own gratification you will reap the rewards. It is a lot of work, but well worth it.
Read this book ASAP: "She comes first". "Hold on to your NUTS" and "The Art of seduction" are other books to read.
Women are like crock pots, men are microwaves. It is your job to make her "feel good" and imagine/anticipate what is coming later. It starts in the morning, a kiss, a look, a non-sexual touch as you leave for work.
Making and breaking contact and building up the sexual tension is part of it also....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
