Thanks, TG...I feel like I'm doing pretty well in starting to figure out "me" (had a good IC session yesterday about that) - my birthday/Father's Day is on the same day and am trying to devise something that is all about me (and what I'd really like to do with the day) and generally figuring out what I want to accomplish in my GALing.
Back to the W, there are other things that seem to indicate she is starting to turn towards me (example: was at a meeting earlier this week downtown and brought her back some "fancy" cupcakes....she posted on her Facebook page about it "now that's love")...she's definitely starting to call/text me more at work as well and is sharing her work/life frustrations with me (which of course I validate)!
I really don't think anything is going on w/ the A (though have noticed the last couple of times I've snooped that she's been deleting her browsing history, which is of course a big red flag) and is still bucking transparency (but have actually not asked about that in a while).
Am planning to talk to her about her impending trip to OM town after her double-work stuff is done this weekend (is scheduled to go to OM town the weekend of June 5), and some boundaries I'd like to talk about (and how it makes me generally anxious).
