BD...I would be offended about getting an overflow ticket for graduation. I wouldn't go.
As for your H- he "knows" he can get you to back down and "come around" to the way you were. Do you really want him to have this power over you? Meaning do your best to decide what your boundaries are, how you will act and communicate with him, and then force yourself to stick to it.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004