My advice OIN is that the next time your wife has a downturn from the drama SHE CREATED in HER WORKPLACE that YOU
STAY OUT of it
Let her cry, squirm, fester, fume, etc.
I know you want to look like a hero and save the day, but your wife has voted you family punching bag right now... if you aren't IN IT, she is less likley to associate you WITH the drama...
It sounds like OM and OMW are doing a fine job on their own of putting this affair to bed once and for all.
NOW is the time you just let HER wrestle with the mess she made and STAY OUT of it.. EVEN if you think you can help... just stay out...
Once the reality of an affair starts to come down... and I HAVE been there as have others... You need to STEP BACK and get OUT of the WAY while reality comes crashing down... and it IS coming down now.
OIN, your wife may come hope in a week or so and find out she's been suspended or even FIRED. YOU need to get OUT of this mess or she will BLAME YOU for her getting suspended or fired.
Once you can see the affair is falling apart and there are people doing the necessary exposure and wake up calls YOU get OUT of there so YOU are NOT BLAMED
I've been there.. Once reality starts setting in, you need to stand clear or be part of your wife's new fantasy hit list of people she wants to hurt beyond measure.
