She reluctantly agreed before but we also were in a fight just before that.
It sounds like she agreed. Is that right?
If she did...thank her. You didn't beg - you asked! Be proud of yourself, SSM! Many others give up - you didn't. If she backs out, let her know you think it would help and hopes she reconsiders.
What you suggested saying sounds nice, not blaming or weak, but if she agreed, focus only on the best counsellor at the best time.
For me, because my wife was worried about cost, I had to go "cheap" on the MC. I figure, a D costs much more than a good MC. Much, much more. Even if you had to re-request, that isn't begging.
