Yeah, I can say that a lot of the time now I don't think about or care about what she is doing.
She hasn't mentioned anything about separation or D since around last December/this past January. Nothing. She was so gung ho in the beginning to legally separate and divide everything. Since then...nothing. She could have been continuing all of this talk but she hasn't. She could have moved out of her parent's house into an apartment but she hasn't.
The house could take months or a year to sell. W was always stressed over the finances. I don't think she will feel comfortable until it sells.
I still haven't emailed her back yet. Don't know if I even want to. Why? I don't know. I have my IC appt. today and will see if that helps me figure out what I want to do.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch