He called Monday 5/17

I picked up and said, Hi How are you?

He said good. Then asked how i was.

I said good and asked about the weather. I asked if he had a good weekend.(He sounded a little taken aback).He said it was fine.

He then said he received my package just now. (it was a quick to the point letter bulleting his bills and his unemployment card)but it did not contain his credit card. (I accidentally forgot to put it in.)

I said o, I really thought i put it in.

He said, o no don't worry just letting you know it wasn't there.

I then said ok when i get home ill take a look. Look at all the bullet points and let me know if you need any clarification. I need to go I have a presentation about my exchange in a few minutes.

He asked, what exchange

I then said the Albany transfer thats either going to happen in july or september(remember i put in for that before all this occured,)

He said o jess, thats crazy you're going to be up there not knowing anyone. Cant you cancel it.

I said, well God is telling me not to have any fear. Im sure ill be ok. Ok well I got to go. Read over everything. Have a BEAUTIFUL day. then i hung up....

Hardest two minutes EVER. I wanted to cry, I wanted to beg. But i kept upbeat and real and short.


I am now dreading the next phone call. Implementing 180 and LRT, how should I respond if he tells me he's going to file?


M:27 H: 33
M:10/07
T:9 yrs
H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010
ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10
Confirmed OW:5/21
Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery)
Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)