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[ClingingToHope]

Perhaps I'm in the minority here, but I'd not send the email. You are always his fallback plan and sending him the email again lets him know, hey, if I can't have OW I can always have Awest.

Is that what you want?

And this is from someone who writes for a living and have written STBXW countless notes and letters over the years trying to turn things around.

They worked at first and then less and less over the years.