How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Personally?

I could give to craps about the stages HE is in, or even if he wears one black sock and one white sock and what THAT might mean.

I care about how you do.


Mach is correct come a day when he comes around, your old marriage is dead.

And you either forgive him for the horrible and poor chocies he made while his mind was all fukced up...and if this is MLC it is fukced up. Or you do not, and if you do not or cannot then move on now.

Because, if your H does come out of an MLC only to be reminded of all the suffering YOU did and all the horrible thing he did...then my advice to him would be to get away from that.

You are not doing this to be superior, you are doing this because you love him. Right?