Allen, I have told all family and friends and other than his dad (who thinks he can do no wrong) everyone things he is having an A. However, everyone has buried their heads in the sand and that is the most frustrating part for me.
He does care a great deal about his reputation, even though he says he doesn't. Then in the next breath he says we'll have to get all new friends because everyone has judged him. I know it's his guilt that keeps him away from all his friends.
I feel better that I have finally done what you adviced and put my foot down about their relationship. I've told him that there is no marraige as long as she is in the picture.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
