I'm interested in that phrase "that couples do fall apart during this phase". Well, why is that? Becuase one cannot forgive the other,they just cant get past it? Becuase the other cannot forgive themelves, or cannot take the constant reminding of what they did and cant take the shame/guilt? That they no longer love each other as they once did? What reasons?
Because the betrayed spouse feels they cant live with the past. And in some cases, because the WA spouse, cant deal with all the hurt they caused. Yes there is choice in there.A difficult one to admit you cant pull through what you wroked really hard for....
