It's going to take a long time. My H is very stubborn and he is convinced that even if I change now, he can't trust that five years down the line things wont go back to the past....this is why he says he doesn't want to be married to me any more.
All I can say is I had another night of being successfully happy and cheerful around him last night, even though I cried myself to sleep. Still holding out hope.
