Hey HM! Saturday is my twins' birthday too (how does one put that into correct English grammar?). They'll be 23 years old.
Just maybe, you can get more money out of XH, since he isn't paying insurance? Wouldn't that be a shock if he asks to pay less, then ends up having to pay more? You are stronger now, more assured since he left, and I bet you will have the confidence and gall to be able to do so. It would certainly stop any yearly trip to the courthouse.
probably not worth the effort, really. I'd truly rather not have to depend upon his cash. for obvious reasons.
I disagree. There's no better way to avoid going on defense, than to show a credible threat of being willing to go on OFFENSE. "Hey, little brother, I think you still owe me five bucks."
"No, YOU actually owe ME two bucks. I wasn't going to bring it up, but now that you did, fork it over."
"Nevermind!"
Seriously, Hoozh, there's no better way to set the tone for any future shenanigans that The Wiccahumper might be contemplatin' than to do a counter-claim against him for this.
