I know I'm still testy from my evening yesterday, but I just want to fly out there and beat the crap out of your H! (Probably because it wouldn't be good if I smacked BF like I really want to.)
He wants to just come and go as he pleases? Agree with Fergie & Jeff, sounds exactly like what he already does. WHATEVER! and HELL NO!
Glad to hear the emotions have subsided and you're able to move forward with the evolving plan. You're right to hold onto the knowledge of the "secret" apartment to use it to your advantage. Follow your L's advice to get the best deal.
So if you're selling the house, we need to get on this girls' weekend! Yes, I'm volunteering you to host us and inviting myself. Very gauche but I want to see your house!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
