I was revealing what was going on to an acquaintance a few weeks ago. Her xH cheated on her multiple times. At the end I got the usual "I'm sorry", which I responded "It's okay".
She got mad and pointed out, it's not okay. My W didn't have to cheat. Since then I've stopped saying "it's okay".
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As much as it sucks, I would still prefer to be US in this scenario. Because we have grown and changed through the process but they have not...
Me too! I like my changes. I like my life, current difficulties notwithstanding. I can't understand how WAS don't go through the same self-overhaul.
Although the W did say "You didn't know me very well". Whatever that means.
