Hi CW! I was out of town for a bit so am getting caught up with your thread.

1)pic in the glove compartment- when I read that, I immediately thought "OW PUT THAT THERE!" I mean why would it be in the truck and not in a keepsake place somewhere y ? I bet it bothers her that you two aren't divorced yet and that he still goes to the house and helps you out!

2) keeping the truck and the car-- sounds fair and you are struggling while he pays his bills???

3)no activity from his L? Worst case scenario- he needs money to pay his L? best case- he hired L to appease OW and personally isn't 100% sure he wants the D. Of course there are several scenarios between those, but those are just my guesses.

PMA....at least we know we are human when it goes away for a bit... you had anger in its place, right? Anger helps with detachment I think!

Hang in there, CW. You are doing so well and truly handling this crap with grace and class!!!!!

Last edited by newmama; 05/20/10 02:57 PM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004