Am I a bad person to say that I'm happy that this happened last night?
No, it's a tough thing to live a secret life and pretend everything is not as it really is. You can lose your integrity doing that. It is probably a relief that it is out in the open.
Now you don't have to pretend anymore.
It really wasn't a secret because she's seen the aftermath and has witnessed how he would speak to me.. but she had never been in the room or been at the receiving end of it. it was always he said, she said.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
