H's extended family has been reaching out... went to dinner with H's aunt and she is angry with him, kept asking how I wasnt so angry (think this pumped me up for some of my feelings). She gave me a gift for the baby... understands the entire situation and said my wish for you is that someone would come take you off of your feet... my nephew will never find anyone as great as you... she also said she plans to come visit and see me and the baby. She understands why I didnt want a shower with his family, and that i will not attend H's family functions. She is too good. always was.
SIL came over with a huge basket of baby goodies... she is due in 2 weeks... we had a good time, she left in tears. guess with her being pregnant, she is able to understand the hardship of being PG and going through this turmoil.
Cousins called over the weekend... all very supportive. Very Angry with H. want to come over in a few weeks...
H's aunt also made the comment that my MIL and FIL are not only devastated but are so upset and scared because they know their relationship to their grandson will never be the same. Aunt said, does your H realize that your son can someday have another dad? yes... and H replies with, he can also have a step mom. (knife in the heart)
