Me: Are you done, do you want the divorce? H: No, I change my mind every day. I don't know what I want Me: For 6 months you have told me everything that I've done wrong. Some of it I agree with and others I do not. H: I just don't see how it will ever work Me: I'm sorry you feel that way. I can not give you any guarantee that it will work between us, but it's worth trying H: I did try, for 4 years Me: I appreciate that you tried. However, I didn't know that you were unhappy and I was never given the chance to meet you half way
mb28, I'm amazed to see how similar your H is to my W. My W says repeatedly, "I tried for 11 years!" and doesn't want to give our relationship another chance. It's interesting to see know that a husband can be that way too. Seems like people in affair all sort of think the same way and say the same things.
Hang in there.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
