I don't know what you are referring to exactly when you mention the parenting plan! Do you mean you want to know how often he will see your D? Or to what extent he will be involved?
I do agree with Gatsby that it doesn't have to be decided now (of course it is YOUR life, lol!) but you can see what he says after holding D and crying and wanting to see her.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004