It is possible he doesn't buy the 180s! Keep working at it a little longer to see if anything changes when he does start to think this could be permanent.
yes and he needs to see that ever since he told me it is over, I have changed toward him. 1) I am not happy with his decision so he can't feel ok about it 2)He will see what I will be like if we divorce 3)he can see evidence that I am detaching from him and this is another action to prove I am moving forward with plans for my future.
I have been holding off on packing up his stuff though. Don't know if he notices that or not.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
