My only concern is that years ago I brought up MC and I just let it slide. Years later, she brought it up and said that since I never did anythig about it she thought I did not care. I just want to avoid that. I think it will help her get through a lot of her problems. Seems to me that a lot of our problems are based on things that have no direct reasoning with US. Maybe I am just trying to "fix" the situation. So maybe a 180 in this occasion is to show her that I did research it and do care about us. This is why I am asking you more knowledgeable people about this.
