Demand that you have the right to be their father. Just because she doesn't want to be married doesn't mean they should lose their father, too. D*mn that woman.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.