Sounds like progress but she still seems a bit distant and reluctant to come back. Any chance of the two of you getting into MC together?
Since the OM is out of the picture you can treat her like a woman you are interested in dating. But when she calls and you tell her "you are disappointed in her" (even if it is justified), I don't see that as being attractive to her. An OM probably wouldn't say something like that to her.
Rather than hit her up with heavy talk, try to build her up. Be someone she knows she can go to for encouragement and to cheer herself up.
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