Do you have insurance covered in your custody agreement? If so then he is in violation and he need to take care of it ASAP!
yes, he is in violation. however, he has essentially screwed it up and cannot make changes at this point. it will cost me $10 per month to add her to mine (my new benefits are incredibly good). and I made it clear we would renegotiate it in November with open enrollment.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012