Hey HM! Saturday is my twins' birthday too (how does one put that into correct English grammar?). They'll be 23 years old.
Just maybe, you can get more money out of XH, since he isn't paying insurance? Wouldn't that be a shock if he asks to pay less, then ends up having to pay more? You are stronger now, more assured since he left, and I bet you will have the confidence and gall to be able to do so. It would certainly stop any yearly trip to the courthouse.
probably not worth the effort, really. I'd truly rather not have to depend upon his cash. for obvious reasons.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
