PS So, does he know you know about his "friend" and the current set up?
Kalni... I have purposely not brought it up yet. I am thinking of it now, as a negotiating point, or PAUSE for dramatic affect. If I have to serve him, I'll do it to the apartment. If he serves me, I'll reply back to his petition there. BUT, don't get me wrong... I will NOT deprive myself of the shock factor of an in person outing. GROWL! LOL
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
He needs to have time (not necessarily equal) with the kids, when he is responsible for the kids, on his turf. And you can have a life on yours,
Jeff... you're preaching to the choir!!! I will get it some version of MY WAY, because it's the right way for the boys. He's done getting to control my future. FINITO!
It's funny... no emotions about anything... just calm... and, some joy!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
