Hey Shiny: Quite honestly, I don't feel like I've made a great deal of changing. I think that he has changed his perspective about the things I say or do--not so much that I say or do things much differently.
What I have done is: Listen more. Validate more. Not make so many assumptions. Ask for what I want more. Constantly worked at trying to overcome anger and resentment from things before, during, and right after bomb.
