try to compartmentalize to get through the court date. be an observer as much as you can. watch her and see what she says and does. if she says nasty things about you in court, future, that's going to be tough. is she trying to put the last nail in the coffin or is she trying to see if there is still any life in there? agree with puppy...she is very conflicted. just stay your course. a divorce doesn't mean its over forever, but might be a necessary part of the process...
