The Ow or possible Ow never figured out which in my sitch...her husband called me and said my H and Ow were having an A. Her H called my H first to confront..and my H told me about it. Said he didn't know what this guy was talking about. It was all based supposedly on a star 69'ed call from our house to theirs. Anyway her H started calling me with all kinds of accusations. I finally called her place of work and left a very politely phrased but nasty spirited answering machine message for all to hear asking her to leave my H alone if she was indeed having an A with him...to work on her M and take care of her H and S and to go to Church and ask God for forgiveness and to remember that she needed my forgiveness,too, if she had had an A with MY H.
Soooo, I wrote a letter to both apologizing ONLY for my part in things and signed it Mrs. John Doe (with real name of course..but with husband's first and last ) as that IS who I am.
Now, my side of the street is cleaned up. My conscience is clean. And by the way, I am an ACOA, too!
