Thanks for the good advice & NM for the suggested wording. The first part is perfect. But re: "Please let me know what your idea of the parenting plan looks like" -- wondering if it can be tweaked... I mean, I know he doesn't have a parenting plan, and wouldn't know what a formal parenting plan is.... no-one knows what he is going to do post meeting the baby.. I presume follow through with his decision to leave .. But I'd really like a line in there about what his contribution might look like...just to show up his lack of commitment.
