Hey HM! Saturday is my twins' birthday too (how does one put that into correct English grammar?). They'll be 23 years old.
Just maybe, you can get more money out of XH, since he isn't paying insurance? Wouldn't that be a shock if he asks to pay less, then ends up having to pay more? You are stronger now, more assured since he left, and I bet you will have the confidence and gall to be able to do so. It would certainly stop any yearly trip to the courthouse.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
