So it's been 3.5 years since my last post...and I'm still alive...and still sane...for the most part It's been a rocky road to say the least but God has been good to me and Divorce Busting has been a huge blessing in itself!
It has been almost 4 years since our separation and 3 years since our divorce has been final and my ex-H has come back around when him and OW have broke up but has always gone back to OW. They recently broke up a month and a half ago and he is coming around again...though this time there is more communication and he is seeming to be putting his neck out...I am too! Our S is 4.5 and visitation is a constant battle as he does not care for going between houses. Now that me and ex-H are 28 and have experience a lot of stuff I'm hoping that we can possibly pull things together.
There is a lot of water under the bridge but I just feel so blessed in my life right now to have learn as much as I have about life itself. It surely hasn't been easy but I truely think different about life now.
Anybody with any input on trying to rekindle after 4 years would definitely be of help at this point. We met for coffee last Saturday, 5 days ago, then he showed up where we were hiking on Sunday and then asked me to go to breakfast this morning with him and S and I accepted. I have continued to invite him to different things as they arrise which generally he doesn't ever show up. I invited him to do something with me tomorrow night and he has plans but is actually asking about me. I'm trying not to stick my neck out too far but I feel this is the last time around this block and I wanna lay it all out there and let him know how I feel and that I'm truely intrested in giving it a shot. This is the most effort he's put into anything with our family in 4 years so here's to hoping
Wish me luck and please extend any advice or insight!
It's been a rocky road to say the least but God has been good to me and Divorce Busting has been a huge blessing in itself!