MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

HB - I think that yesterday's meeting helped me to get my resolve back to remain dark for now. We will see if he will continue being angry with me after he realizes that it doesn't work on me. What will he do next?

I unfortunately have to deal with him about business. I will keep most of our contact to email and be polite but very dry. I told him that I only want to meet once a week not 2x a week. And I WILL do better then the last time.

I can do it, I will write out most of what we need to discuss and will ignore any of his attempts to suck me into his drama. I will treat him as I would a very difficult customer. Customer is always right (validate) even when they are out to lunch. I'll be polite but reserved.
To his offer to work on my computer I replied. Thank you but no thank you. To another email where he was telling me details of a new job I just replied OK.

I'm not going away for the weekend, after talking it over with my friends we decided to postpone it. Now my D is upset with me, because she was apparently really looking forward being on her own...hmmm

Interesting that since H came back from visiting OW he is seeing D16 every day. Invited her for dinner at his place yesterday, she couldn't but stopped at his place later and spent couple of hours with him, said that they just talked. Tonight she actually did go to his place for dinner.

I'm happy the he wants to see her, but I'm feeling very alone and left out...it feels like my family is there and I'm here by myself and not invited. Very sad....