please dont get me wrong, but i have been reading the book (dr) maybe i didnt interpret properly but i remember it said to get on with my life. I seem to have gotten her attention not as i would like but none the less i do have her attention, but i have to think about the point you made whether it justifies her actions or what i'm doing makes her stop and think. that i can move on with out her i have to choose the lesser of two evils. If she sees me as a weak person unable to move on or she sees me as a desireable man by other women, maybe she will have seconed thoughts. She has been having seconed thoughts about going back to boston and having a long term relationship that cant possibly go any where unless she moves there. and I dont think she would leave our son for anyone. She has had alot more contact with me and im not sure how to take it just the fact she is questioning her relationship with this guy does give me hope even though im sure im wrong. One thing im sure of she is having seconed thoughts of our monitary situation she has come to the rude conclusion that i contributed much more then she ever imagined and she is addicted to money, not that i want that to be her reason to want me back. I guess what I want is for her to realize that i was a good husband and I made a good living and her decissions were wrong though she may never admit it. I would love yours or anyones input on this situation.
me 46 w 42 m 18 years this april two boys 24 & 14 bomb nov. 9 2009 still fighting to hold on
