You know your husband best, I honestly don't like this strategy, but if it works, great!
I am not liking it either and probably for the same reason.
Possible scenario: H is looking for proof that you will not be able to work things out. He will find it in therapy. As you know, it doesn't take much for him to 'find' justifications.
Be very careful. Tell your T these concerns. Maybe just talk about his "A" and ending his "friendship before any couples work can occur. IDK...just sayin'
Maybe you 2 can make an agreement to not bring up D for a couple of months. You both get frustrated, and jump to the D really quick.
((((Hugs)))) mb. I know how hard it is to hear about OW and H. I can't imagine hearing it from the kids, and about plans that include them. Arghhhh. All you are really hearing about is a fantasy world and I'm sorry they are involving the kids. It would be very mature of him to keep OW away from kiddos while you are still married. Even if they are 'just friends', they are acting/planning like partners.
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