WOW! Your finally on the OTHER side of things by your list. How you longed for that in the past. How we all have. I'm so very happy for you. Your the second post tonight I've read where things have definately done a 180 in your R. He's come out on the other side finally. You have to join him there Tal. Screw the pnone records. Look at how he is treating you. Even if he DID talk to her-what's that mean? It means that he TALKED to her. Who knows about what? Who cares? Don'tlet it eat away at you. He's with YOU because he wants to be there. Don't let past hurts sabotage what you now have. I'm in the same boat. I've really even gotten almost to the point where I'm not even threatened by my H talking to the OW. It freaked meout at first I admit. But, the more I thought about it the more I know that he is moving AWAY from her and towards me. It's the actions that speak louder than words. The OW will be out of your lives. Just keep moving forward with him. FORWARD TAL..........Rachael
