W met with IC today. She has been virtually catatonic for 3 days. Unable to work, unable to think.

Hit me up with the cold details. Will be filing 2nd week of June. Her IC is in full support and encouragement mode. W anxiety is due to her uncertainty about her financial situation and living situation. She recognizes her lifestyle is going to take a major hit. Her IC wants her to move forward and get it done, just to ease her anxiety. W asked IC if she wanted to meet me and she said no way.

Told her the finances were no big deal. However, I have the feeling that the IC has convinced her that she needs to cut all ties in order to move on.

How is it, with so many friends and family in the real world, that I can feel so totally alone.

This thing needs to end.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012