still separated, headed for D?

[WhatNow]

If he tells me it is over with OW and wants to R I will ask some basic q's first like
"When did you end it? What did you say? How did she take it? Where is your stuff? Is she still working with you? What is her schedule? Where is she in the building?"

then "Why did you end it? Why do you think you did this?"

and I have fuzzy ideas about explaining what I need, but rest assured these 5 things will be a part of the list:

-full transparency
-honesty about when she tries to contact him because she will
-no contact letter to her
- he needs to got IC
-change his email and phone number

In addition to the above, I would ask for MC to negotiate a return.