I was reading your advice to OIN and saw that you said that you took wife back too easily. Could you elaborate? In my stitch husband and OW got into a huge fight and that is how things ended. Now husband and I have been trying to reconcile but I often wonder if I should have not taken him back at his first try. We are still separated and I plan to remain that way until husband continues to get the proper treatment by seeing a family therapist and dealing with his issues and our relationship issues but why do you feel you took your wife back too quickly?
What did you do when she first said she wanted to work on the marriage? I am trying to learn from others that have attempted or are reconciling.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
