Have you ever considered telling the truth? If you are not embarrassed to do something, you should not be embarrassed to say you did it. So you talked to her friend. Big deal! whoop-de-do. You were concerned about your wife and you talked to her friend. You're a cop. What crime is that?

Well, hopefully she now knows that OM was just playing her. Of course, if he really brings this up to supervisors at work, it is a big deal. will he charge her with sexual harassment? Do you know? Does she know? She could be out of a job soon.

she has made a mess of her life. What is she going to do about it? Time for you to stop trying to clean up her mess.