Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
The CS stuff is going to be interesting. I'm wondering if it's going to be a yearly -- hey, I could use more kind of thing?

well, a month or so ago he said he was fine with things as is, he was used to it and budgeted for it. now he no longer pays for insurance, wants to pay less CS and tuition. gotta remember, this is the man who walked into mediation asking "how long do I have to keep paying support?" even his attorney was appalled and shut him up. he's entitled to do what he wants, when he wants to, and just because we've been struggling to keep the bills paid for 2 years, that certainly shouldn't inconvenience him. I think you're right--it's going to come up periodically when he thinks he can benefit.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012