Jeannine,
Honestly, I don't think they think they are hurting us with things that often cut us to the core. My H (okay, he knows he's hurting me with the OW thing...) gave me 3 sets of 4 tickets to ball games. I thought I would cry. To me it meant, I am not going, the three of you go, invite someone else. And one game is in April. To H, he thought he was being really nice giving us the tickets, cause he LOVES to go to the games.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.