Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[Gardener]

ant,
No words of wisdom; you've already gotten the best today.
Just prayers and support for a good outcome.
And inner peace.

[antlers]

Thanks G. I appreciate it.

Didn't hear one word yesterday regarding things. Hectic day yesterday anyway...anticipation/anxiety regarding the Final Resolution Conference...plus we had bad tornados all over here yesterday with some fatalities and some very critically injured people. Had to stay late last night because of it. Back at work again this morning, wondering if/what I'm gonna hear from my attorney regarding the case.
My son texted me yesterday evening that he wanted me to come and get him after I got off of work last night, so I did.
He's 12. We've been spending lots of QT together recently. Thank God for that.
I'll see what today brings.

[Bridgestone]

Hi Antlers,
There is a newbie in newcomers that I think could benefit from your experience. her name is fudwoman.

I know you are in the midst of a lot of high tension issues and that time & mental/emotional energy may be at a premium, but I know if someone has been there, done that in making changes from 'angry' to 'at peace', and can have compassion for where she is at right now in growing & working on her R, it's you.

Thanks for whatever you can do.
Bridge

[Bridgestone]

thanks

[antlers]

Finally heard from my attorney yesterday. Trial date is set for July. I wasn't wanting a trial. Anyway as Gypsy said on another thread..."She IS your adversary. Treat it as a business proposition, cut and dry. Get the best possible deal and walk away." It's hard to see me being able to survive this financially right now. It's cut throat, scorched earth litigation...propagated by her attorney and her. It's bad. I do not look forward to a trial.

[cat03]

oh no, sorry to hear that! will keep praying til then...

[antlers]

Much obliged cat03.

[antlers]

Just wanted to put this on my thread too because it is such sound wisdom...

"Life is better when a former spouse's antics (on either side of the spectrum) are not monitored." - Gypsy

[antlers]

Greek posted this earlier on Thinker's thread, and I can relate...

"She's in full tilt 'entitled princess' mode and you are not going along with it as you once did. It's rocking her world." - Greek

She's just pissed because I'm messing up her game plan. This divorce has turned into the most nasty and awful thing!

[Gardener]

Must be tough when they follow "the script" for so long and the spouse has the temerity to not play along.