So I have been dealing with his texting about S throughout this trip. I know I am just silly but am still a little self conscious about how I interact with him. Could you please let me know if my replies were good? Meaning just business like? I might have sounded rude sometimes and friendly others....argh! I will take the feedback and use it for the future.
And I have now not cried for 3 days straight....the anti d's might be working finally!
Monday: I had to inform him that I took S to the doctor on Monday and explained (he is fine!). I needed to be a little bit lengthy with that one because of the dr's info. He replied 3 hours later that he was glad and thanks for telling him and how is he doing tonight, playing? eating?
I actually didn't reply until the next morning.
Tuesday a.m.: I lied though and said "sorry my phone was charging-he was super tired but seems better now!" He replied with "no problem! glad he is feeling better this morning! hopefully his appetite is better today!"
Then he checked in that night and I said "He was feeling better today and was very active."
He replied "Good. I'm very glad to hear that. Give that boy a kiss goodnight for me! You guys have a good evening!" I didn't reply.
Wednesday: This evening (today) He said "hope S did well today. I can't wait to see him. I'll let you know when I leave the airport tomorrow. Have a good night!" I replied "Well he was pretty cranky and tired all day. He'll be happy to see you. Have a good flight!"
I hope it's okay that I wished him a safe flight even though I am trying to be cold and distant.
Now I don't have to deal with texting from him since he will be returning tomorrow night. Phew!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004