Met w/ W last night for some darts and wings...spent about 1.5 hours w/ her...
just wondering but if you are dark why are you spending time with her?
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Her life has changed a lot...
okay so her life has changed. What about YOURS. How has your life changed. What does Jasper see when he looks in the mirror? How much work has Jasper done on Jasper? I'm interested to see your answer.
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Anyway- when the conversation turned to R talk we decided to call it a night.
Thats a good thing...R convo never really come out right unless we the LBS are really ready.
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look at your part in things and see what could have been changed
What did you hope to accomplish with this statement? Did you think she would say "yeah I f*cked up - your right I am sorry. Come on dude you know better than that. You need to realize that nothing you say to her will change anything. YOUR actions my friend are the only that will speak to her and that is if she is ready to see them and only if she is coming out of her criis. THis statement tells me that you still feel like somethign you say will mke her "wake up". IMO - it will not happen.
Jasper - ask your self this question...what does Jasper really want. What can Jasper really accept? Who is Jasper? WHo is the Jasper that wakes up in th morning and brushes his teeth, shave, etc. What does this guy really what? What can this guy control? Dude you only control yourself. You only control how you deal with this. You my friend are in charge.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
