Boy when tragedy strikes it goes back to appreciating the basics in life!
Flowmom and newmama--thanks so much for your wise way of seeing what is good in life. Yes, we all need to be thankful for what we have and try to see the benefit of living with a clean conscience. I try to take the high road and not to let myself get bogged down in anger and self pity, but some days it's just tough. (Flowmom, my H is also depressed so I know what it's like to see him destroy our marriage, as he deals with his confusion and pain. This is a link to my thread)
Ladies, you are wonderful strong women and an inspiration!