My Life and Husband's MLC

[courageous wife]

DU...it is hard isn't it? You WILL get there. I have been questioning so much myself...ex. God. Why have you done this to me? You allowed my Dad to die and a couple of months later I find out I have cancer and JUST when I was starting to get back on my feet...my H tells me that he is love with another woman? WTH? I KNOW that "I" didn't do anything to deserve this but I also know that I was not perfect! I am working on myself so that if H comes out of the fog and realizes that he has thrown away the best things that have happened to him in life, that I will be able to handle it and be a better partner to him! And...if H doesn't come back, I want to be a better partner to the next H!!!

You say you don't like what you see...only YOU can fix what you don't like. Do the mirror work. God WILL be there if you let Him!

Also, ask yourself...is your H worth standing for? If YOU think he is, then you have to do the work...being overseas may be what bring the rock bottom that he needs...will you be ready for him IF that happens, when he comes back?

As he must change, so must you!

Take the time, reflect, cry, curse, whatever you need to do. Read "The Journey From Abandoment to Healing"....I am and it has already helped me!

I am glad that you are asking these questions DU!!! Keep posting! Read other people's threads...